In the heart of the modern civilization, there is a recent trend of splurging one's own bloodline in the name of honor killing. When the life givers themselves take away the life of their own fruits whom they seeded and nurtured, for they chose to take a stand of their own decision once in their lifetym, its called Inhumane, Immoral and Unjust.
Since the advent of the decade, the rate of such injustices took pace.I come from that part of India where these shameful incidents occur most frequently. Reportedly, a young couple(Female 21 and Male 22) was brutally murdered in the name of "honor" in Ballah village in Haryana in April 2011
When on one hand India has been developing in all spheres and its economic growth been paced up, the discrimination in the name of minority faith and against low-caste communities are still stands up as the major hindrance to overall development of this country.
People may have their reputation at stake if their children get out of their moral boundaries and commit heinous crimes but what we see here is not a crime. Children above the 18 years of age are no more minors and they have their own rights to take up the decision whom they want to live rest of their lives with. How long will we have to wait our society to develop and be sensible both morally and socially?
This was an incident known to me, maybe this was the reason i felt sorry for that young couple the most.
But what we can we do? We can never know how a simple household gets slaughtered with a simple dispute and misunderstanding. With domestic violence hitting the top of the charts since the advent of this decade. Most of them go unnoticed but one should be alarmed at its start because it sounds an alarm for a massacre that is likely to take place in near future.
The topic has been on my mind and I wanted to share my views with you all.
You cant make people love.The only thing you can do is to give love. One act of forgiveness is a step towards Greatness.Great souls make history. According to Dr. B.R. Ambedkar-"They cannot make history who forget history."
I wish to eradicate this problem from the basic root. Prevention is better than making cure.
People with hypertension must be counselled at an early stage, Proper understanding of the needs of the spouse may help curb majority of arguments, disturbances and worries in one's household. There must be local campaigns for the enlightenment of the masses to avoid Violence at Home, Roads,Workplaces etc. Rehabilitation centers must not be tabooed or considered home for the sicks. People must be encouraged to get themselves rehabilitated and should discourage use of alcohol and narcotics both by themselves and others. Minors should never be sold commodities like alcohol, cigarettes, narcotics etc.
Peaceful household may keep one healthy and happy at mind and this does brings positive energy in one's talks and actions. Avoid violent acts and loose talks on road for this might just help you save some time and energy.
My intentions are to make society a bit more sophisticated and happier to live in.
