All the good that we have in this world comes with the choices we made. Never so insane, never so silly did this idea look to me. I had chosen my fair share of happines with the choices life has made for me. In India, parents in most of the cultures are concerned with child's security that the choice of living and way of living of the child rests with his/her parents or their guardians. For a moment it might suck, the very idea of your life being controlled and the way freedom has not been given to one individual might force you to aprehend that these budding individuals wouldn't survive the strong and rash world when it comes to them. For we have demanded freedom too much that now it might look like when someone guards us, preventing or warding off the possible danger one yound mind might get into, is a violation of our birth rights. I would like to intervene here and ask a simple question to the reader, "How many times have you been given freedom and how many of them were well utilised?" Except for the fact that our nation produces a few heroes and more commoners. If restriction to certain areas of a child's interest are made then we cannot blame the parents for blocking a road to success. If a parent demands something from a child then it is just that he/she obeys and stays out of troubles.
The peer pressure is an influence enough for a child to rebel. Not just that a child gets down to protest against his own parents but sometimes resorts to unfair violent means to get them on to his/her terms.
Such a stage comes when the individual is striving to make his mark on society but he doesn't get the weightage in his own family. A fa-m-ily is "far more than i love you" then why does one have to fight with the one's whom one loves, who are the most dear but they fail to understand thr needs of this budding indvidual.
Think!
The peer pressure is an influence enough for a child to rebel. Not just that a child gets down to protest against his own parents but sometimes resorts to unfair violent means to get them on to his/her terms.
Such a stage comes when the individual is striving to make his mark on society but he doesn't get the weightage in his own family. A fa-m-ily is "far more than i love you" then why does one have to fight with the one's whom one loves, who are the most dear but they fail to understand thr needs of this budding indvidual.
Think!
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